It is very frustrating and painful when you are being lied by the one that you love. If this happens to one person for the first time, it is so very easy to him/her to forgive a liar, as well as the second and third time. Well this depends if the victim really felt love for his/her partner. The victim always forgive just to save the relationship. Even though that the victim knows what is best for him/her. Victim of this lie always holds on and hopes that the situation will change.
Ask these questions to yourself : Can you call it a better relationship when your partner lies to you? Do you have an idea that the reason for lying is for covering mistakes to maintain better respect and love? If you are emotionally in loved with somebody, it is hard to answer these questions logically. Because you often makes excuses for your partner who lies to you, just to make yourself feel good by staying with somebody who does not really love you. Do not say that your partner does not really feel love for you when he lie. You and your partner is committed to the relationship that you would like to believe. There are a lot of lies-good lies and worst lies, but still a lie is always a lie, no matter what classes of lie. Focus on this: If your partner can lie so easily to you, even just the small things that is not necessarily to lie about, you can think that he/she will do it to you for the worst one that can do a much bigger damage on your relationship. Think about this: do not think that a lie is always a worse thing to do.
